[quote user="Reece"]The connection to the Mercury server from the main (relay) server is also SSL, so that all outgoing mail is over an SSL connection in the first instance. If the receiving server doesn't accept SSL then I want to send it via the relay server, not Mercury.[/quote]
The only way to guarantee a SSL/TLS connection from your server is to send everything through a suitable relay server. Although, as Thomas says, what you gain by this strategy is unclear.
<P>[quote user="Reece"]The connection to the Mercury server from the main (relay)&nbsp;server is also SSL, so that&nbsp;all outgoing mail is over an SSL connection in the first instance. If the receiving server doesn't accept SSL then I want to send it via the relay server, not Mercury.[/quote]</P>
<P>The only way to guarantee a SSL/TLS connection from your server is to send everything through a suitable&nbsp;relay server.&nbsp; Although, as Thomas says, what you gain by this strategy is unclear.</P>